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I know how this is going to sound, and I'm not going to pretend I'm not bitter, because I am, but you get that when someone you thought was your friend lies to your face repeatedly and shits on you and your friendship, but I've long said this woman needs to come with a warning, so here is your warning:

For those in the TH fandom, be very weary of [livejournal.com profile] omgcaffeine aka [livejournal.com profile] faithundscience aka [livejournal.com profile] melancholy_nz aka [livejournal.com profile] gaypridegirl83 aka [livejournal.com profile] duckynz aka [livejournal.com profile] theperfectend aka [livejournal.com profile] ichbinkiwi aka [livejournal.com profile] ocherrycherry aka [livejournal.com profile] shesamouse - Please keep in mind these are only the ones I am privy to.I have no doubt there are plenty more.

She has begun popping up on my f.page posting her "fic" in various places (It isn't real fanfic, but rather rp logs she has edited together to flow as fic better). I'm not warning off that though, I'm warning off about HER. She is a fake and a liar. She will pull at your heart strings and tell you she has a terminal illness to make you feel sorry for her and to gain attention. She does have an illness, however she is not terminal. In fact she isn't even under the care of a specialist. That is unheard of for what she supposedly has (I say "supposedly" because she is a proven lair and as I have a friend living with the very disease she says she has, I know a little more about it and the care that is received than this woman would care for anyone know; If you are informed, her lies stick out a mile).

She is a desperately lonely person and latches onto people by making out she shares the same interests they do. I can say this because she did it to me, and when I met her in person, she was NOTHING like who she made herself out to be.

She comes off as sweet and kind, but she is a vicious, nasty piece of work when she shows her true self.

I have known this woman for the past three and a half years and time and time again she has shown herself to be a ruthless, heartless liar. Please think twice if you are considering adding her journal and/or talking to her online; She is not who she makes herself out to be.

My apologies if this has caused offence to anyone or comes off as petty, but as I consider each of you to be friends, I can't let it slide when I know what the nature of this person truly is. I do not say this lightly, but she is the ugliest soul I have ever encountered. Please be very careful around her.

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Date: 2011-12-20 05:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mikeyface.livejournal.com
Holy shit! O_O Girl has lost her damn mind!! *CUDDLES* I'm sorry you still have to deal with her. (and thanks for the heads up!! XD) *lovelove*

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Date: 2011-12-20 07:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nz-bonjovi-gal.livejournal.com
I don't think she ever had it to begin with, but there is only so long your lies can be sustained before someone sees you for what you really are. She got so wild with me because I saw it and I called her out on it. I maintain that the reason she got SO mad with me, when I was the one who was lied to repeatedly, shit on, taken advantage of, was because she knew she had done me SO wrong this time. She is nothing but a liar... I should have known this after I went up there, but stupid me, I HAD to give her the benefit of the doubt.

I'm not gonna lie, seeing her on my fpage, posting in comms I frequent sets my teeth on edge. LJ is my safe place from the bullshit, y'know?. =( *snugs*

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Date: 2011-12-21 06:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mikeyface.livejournal.com
Oh, I know, bb. Trust me I know exactly how you feel. I've dealt with this kind of thing before, just not quite as severe as your situation with Queen Crazy. Yikes. I hope she just goes the fuck away soon!! ♥ *CUDDLES*

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Date: 2011-12-21 04:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] randazanda.livejournal.com
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxoxoxo
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Date: 2012-02-29 03:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nz-bonjovi-gal.livejournal.com
1) Oh yes, I know this person VERY well. You get to know someone real well when they shit all over everything you ever did for them. Also, I never got a single apology for being lied to repeatedly, for being taken for granted and for my friendship to her being shit all over.

2)You need to keep in mind there are two sides to every story. I ripped her to pieces?! Oh please! You weren't there, you do not know what went down and you have NO idea how ruthless that bitch is. I know she comes across as the nicest person in the world, but trust me that botch has a darkness you wouldn't even believe. And how do I know this? Because I have seen it on numerous occasions.

3) No rumours have been started from my end. I speak the truth. Believe what you will but again, without both sides to the story you're at a disadvantage to be able to say ANYTHING to me.

4) Learn the facts before you speak. I have personal history to fall back on. I KNOW what I am saying is true; This woman is a liar and a fake, but by all means go ahead and be taken in by her, you'll learn in time that I'm not the one who makes things up and then squeals like a stuck pig when they're found out.

I won't take your post down. I have nothing to hide. I'm not the one running and crying to people over the fact someone has called me out for being a liar and a fake. I stand behind every SINGLE word of this entry.

Oh, and you can tell her she is old enough and ugly enough to fight her own damn battles and if she has something to say, she knows where to reach me. I'd tell her myself but she can't fight her own battles; she is notorious for cutting and running and setting up as someone new in a bid to reinvent herself/hide from the cesspit of waste that she is. She can't handle it when people see her for what she is. I am no saint, but I FULLY admit to that, and I don't run and hide when I am called out.... Unlike someone we apparently have in common. I feel for you becasue clearly you have been taken in by this woman. take some advice from someone who has been there, be careful.
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Date: 2012-02-29 04:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nz-bonjovi-gal.livejournal.com
Think what you want. I'm not arguing with you when you have no idea of the things she has said and done to me, nor the things I have had to listen to her whine about other people. I do not know you, so your opinion means little to me. This post was written as a caution to MY friends about her because I care about them and I don't want to see them get taken in by her and ultimately hurt when she can't hold up the facade a moment longer.

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Date: 2012-02-29 04:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] revolyat.livejournal.com
Seriously? I can agree that she is a bitch. But there is almost ALWAYS a cause for her going into bitch mode, and if there isn't, she's certainly not too proud to apologize for it. I have seen her beat herself up over things (including arguments with you), and on the contrary I have seen her forgive people that really should not have been forgiven in the first place. She is not perfect, and I'm not going to sit here and argue that she is, but she's a hell of a lot better person than you could ever dream to be.

First off, what does roleplay or fic have to do with anything? You're sitting here judging her as a person. Since when does posting up roleplays or fanfiction define who you are? Yes, it is a big part of her life, but it is not something that can classify her as 'the ugliest soul [you] have ever encountered".

Second, and I do NOT take this point lightly, she does NOT lie about her illnesses to make people feel sorry for her. She RARELY talks about it, and the only ones she really bothers to go into detail about it with is her friends. If you know much about it, she obviously considered you a friend. Lupus is a fucking HORRIBLE disease, and I wouldn't wish it upon anyone, not even you. My mother was sick from the time I was nine years old to just over a year ago. She died from Lupus. If anyone would know anything about that disease, it's me. There's no real symptoms, or at least none that everyone who has Lupus gets. And it's only become more prominent in the last few years, so there are hardly any 'specialists' to speak of, especially in a small country like New Zealand. My mother was on the waiting list for YEARS to get one appointment to see someone in a hospital several states away (I'm in the US) that wasn't even a specialist. They had just dealt with the disease before. True specialists are difficult to come by, and even if you can find someone, the wait list is miles long and it doesn't come cheap. How the hell can she be expected to get a specialist under conditions like that? Tashe mentions minor things to me all the time, things that I saw my mom go through with her Lupus, and when she tells me about them, she isn't even aware that they could ever relate to her terminal illness. I have to sit here and watch my best friend go through everything I saw my mother go through, and it scares the hell out of me. Until you've had to deal with Lupus personally, every day, you have no right sitting there saying someone is faking it.

And my last point is that people are always going to be different between the internet and real life. I have known Tashe for quite a few years online and have spent about two months with her in real life, between two visits. It's very different, I can agree with that. But if anything, she is more kind in person, so I don't get why you think there's anything to complain about there.

Honestly, if you'd leave her alone, there would be no problems. You could easily block her, stop texting, stop emailing. Tell your friends to keep away if it blows your skirt up. But posting a public entry about her and tagging her is just a way to pick a fight.

Are you sure it's her desperate for attention?

If you hate her as much as you make it sound, ignore her. Problem solved.

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Date: 2012-02-29 04:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nz-bonjovi-gal.livejournal.com
Really, Bex? Do you want me to tell you the things she used to say to me about you? Don't get one on, this has nothing to do with you. I respect that you're looking out for someone you think has value, but I have seen that she has none. This post was written as a caution to MY friends about her because I care about them. She is the one that has brought this all up again with her whining and moaning.

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